Do Women Really Listen???

As women, we often complain about our man not listening enough. But do we really listen? I hear so often us [women] b*tching and complaining about such simple issues. We tell ourselves and our friends that it’s the “principle”. Is it really? Or are we just so caught up on things being “our way or the highway”?

Are we really wholehearted in these relationships? We say we are. We tell our friends we are. But is this all a game that we’re playing? All a bed of lies? Or are these really the games of love that we play with each other’s hearts??
Ask yourself. When’s the last time you sat and listened to your man? Actually asked him, how was “his” day? Told him you love him. Asked him what some of his favorites??
Do this, not because you want him to ask you, but because you’re really concerned! Listen to one of his problems, without nagging about how he should resolve it and telling him what he NEEDS to do.

Oh??! You say you ask him all the time?? Oh, yea cause that’s how sweet of a girl/woman you are right?!! LOL, don’t flatter yourself honey!
See as women, though we don’t admit it. We play a lot of games. We think we’re all masters of the mind. We’re all psychologist when it comes to love, but if this were true, we’d all be happy. Right?!

Don’t get me wrong, guys have plenty of fault too; and though some games are needed, at some point you have to be truthful. If you want true love, you must be true. You must be willing to give in and play fair. The heart knows what it wants, so you’ll know when to let your guard down.

So give it a try. Give in to your man, open your ears…and listen. Don’t speak…just listen and soon you’ll know more than enough about him and how to get his heart.

Kennedi